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I really love the look of Nude tones paired together. I was very excited when I found this nude vintage top at a flea market during the summer months and I immediately grabbed it.
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I paired it with my American Apparel pencil skirt and my Steve Madden Bellahh Mary Jane pumps.
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I’m extremely sad that the weather is changing. I am not a fall or winter person at all. I am nonetheless excited for fall fashion. The booties, the scarves, the layering, and the array of outerwear. I hope you all share my excitement!
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What are YOUR go-to pieces for the season?!
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wearing: Vintage top, American Apparel pencil skirt, Steve Madden heels, Aldo clutch
Have a Wonderful day Everyone
With Love,
~Opal~

How to be Alone by Tanya Davis
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If you are at first lonely, be patient.If you’ve not been alone much, or if when you were, you weren’t okay with it, then just wait. You’ll find it’s fine to be alone once you’re embracing it.
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We can start with the acceptable places, the bathroom, the coffee shop, the library, where you can stall and read the paper, where you can get your caffeine fix and sit and stay there. Where you can browse the stacks and smell the books; you’re not supposed to talk much anyway so it’s safe there. There is also the gym, if you’re shy, you can hang out with yourself and mirrors, you can put headphones in.
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Then there’s public transportation, because we all gotta go places. And there’s prayer and mediation, no one will think less if your hanging with your breath seeking peace and salvation. Start simple. Things you may have previously avoided based on your avoid being alone principles.
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The lunch counter, where you will be surrounded by “chow downers”, employees who only have an hour and their spouses work across town, and they, like you, will be alone. Resist the urge to hang out with your cell phone.
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When you are comfortable with “eat lunch and run”, take yourself out for dinner; a restaurant with linen and Silverware. You’re no less an intriguing a person when you are eating solo desert and cleaning the whip cream from the dish with your finger. In fact, some people at full tables will wish they were where you were.
Go to the movies. Where it’s dark and soothing, alone in your seat amidst a fleeting community.
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And then take yourself out dancing, to a club where no one knows you, stand on the outside of the floor until the lights convince you more and more and the music shows you. Dance like no one’s watching because they’re probably not. And if they are, assume it is with best human intentions. The way bodies move genuinely to beats, is after-all, gorgeous and affecting. Dance until you’re sweating. And beads of perspiration remind you of life’s best things. Down your back, like a book of blessings.
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Go to the woods alone, and the trees and squirrels will watch for you. Go to an unfamiliar city, roam the streets, they are always statues to talk to, and benches made for sitting gives strangers a shared existence if only for a minute, and these moments can be so uplifting and the conversation you get in by sitting alone on benches, might of never happened had you not been there by yourself
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Society is afraid of alone though. Like lonely hearts are wasting away in basements. Like people must have problems if after awhile nobody is dating them. But lonely is a freedom that breathes easy and weightless, and lonely is healing if you make it. You can stand swathed by groups and mobs or hands with your partner, look both further and farther in the endless quest for company.
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But no one is in your head. And by the time you translate your thoughts an essence of them maybe lost or perhaps it is just kept. Perhaps in the interest of loving oneself, perhaps all those “sappy slogans” from pre-school over to high school groaning, we’re tokens for holding the lonely at bay.
Cause if you’re happy in your head, then solitude is blessed, and alone is okay.
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It’s okay if no one believes like you, all experiences unique, no one has the same synapses, can’t think like you, for this be relived, keeps things interesting, life’s magic things in reach, and it doesn’t mean you aren’t connected, and the community is not present, just take the perspective you get from being one person in one head and feel the effects of it.
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wearing: Lace Top-TOPSHOP, Full Length Pants-Vintage, Clutch-ALDO, Heels-L.A.M.B
Take silence and respect it. If you have an art that needs a practice, stop neglecting it, if your family doesn’t get you or a religious sect is not meant for you, don’t obsess about it.
You could be in an instant surrounded if you need it.
If your heart is bleeding, make the best of it.
There is heat in freezing, be a testament.


Have a BEAUTIFUL day everyone!
Love,
~Opal~

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One thing I like to remember when I’m outfitting myself is BALANCE. I try not to be too overbearing with the pieces I put together, so whenever I’m wearing something short that exposes  a lot of legs,  I like to balance that out by wearing something that covers me up top and vice versa. If you don’t practice balance, you bare the risk of looking rather tacky.
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Lately, I have found myself waking up and falling asleep to the soothing sounds of Adele. I am a lover of prose and sometimes I feel as though my inner most feelings are being articulated through her lips. Most of her music is an expression of LOVE, which explains why I am so drawn to her beautifully crafted lyrics.
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Like many  of us, I’m one of those fools in Love, but then again, that’s one of the most beautiful things about it. The exhilaration of not knowing exactly where it will take you or how it will have you reexamine everything you thought you ever knew about yourself or life for that matter. I remember watching the movie Remember Me and one thing stuck with me, “whatever you do in life will be insignificant but it’s very important that you do it because nobody else will. Like when someone comes in your life and half of you says you’re nowhere near ready but the other half says make her yours forever.” Life is about taking chances and risking everything in pursuit of a life worth living and finding someone worth sharing that life with.
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So when IN Love, BE in Love. Lose yourself, open your heart and mind and allow yourself to be completely indulged in it. Hold NOTHING back and everything will fall perfectly in place.
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Wearing: Top: KNT by Kova and T, Lace Skirt: Forever 21, Platform Booties: ALDO, Bag: BCBG Generation
Have a BEAUTIFUL day G(ems)!!!

 THE INVITATION by Oriah Mountain Dreamer
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It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing. It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.
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It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon…I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life’s betrayals or have become shrivelled and closed from fear of further pain.
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I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.
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It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can
disappoint another to be true to yourself. If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.
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I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty every day. And if you can source your own life from its presence. I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine and still stand at the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes.”
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It doesn’t interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done
to feed the children. It doesn’t interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back.
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It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
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Wearing: Topshop Dress, ALDO nude pumps, ALDO envelope clutch, Michael Kors Watch
I Love the Romantic aura of this dress. The color, the lace, the fit…it all just feels so LOVE-ly.
Hope you all have a wonderful weekend!!
~Opal~

This post is long overdue. I would love to thank Hanna Almassi from GRAZIA UK Magazine for including me in this lovely New York Heatwave feature. I received this August issue some time ago and I was really excited to open it up. Here’s some of what I saw…
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 ~Precious G(em)~

This is one of my all time favorite pieces of writing && I get inspired every time I read it. This Isn’t the whole poem but a few of my favorite parts of it. I hope you all get inspired as well <3
 
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A time comes in your life when you finally get it… When in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere, the voice inside your head cries out – ENOUGH! 
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Enough fighting and crying, or struggling to hold on. And, like a child quieting down after ablind tantrum, your sobs begin to subside, you shudder once or twice, you blink back your tears and through a mantle of wet lashes, you begin to look at the world through new eyes. 

This is your awakening… 
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You realize that it’s time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change, or for happiness, safety and security to come galloping over the next horizon. You come to terms with the fact that he is not Prince Charming and you are not Cinderella and that in the real world, there aren’t always fairy tale endings (or beginnings for that matter) and that any guarantee of “happily ever after” must begin with you and in the process, a sense of serenity is born of acceptance. 
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You awaken to the fact that you are not perfect and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what you are … and that’s OK. (They are entitled to their own views and opinions.) And you learn the importance of loving and championing yourself and in the process, a sense of new found confidence is born of self-approval. 
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You stop complaining and blaming other people for the things they did to you (or didn’t do for you) and you learn that the only thing you can really count on is the unexpected. You learn that people don’t always say what they mean or mean what they say and that not everyone will always be there for you and that it’s not always about you. So, you learn to stand on your own and to take care of yourself and in the process, a sense of safety & security is born of self-reliance. 
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 You stop judging and pointing fingers and you begin to accept people as they are and to overlook their shortcomings and human frailties and in the process, a sense of peace & contentment is born of forgiveness.
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You realize that much of the way you view yourself and the world around you, is a result of all the messages and opinions that have been ingrained into your psyche. You begin to sift through all the junk you’ve been fed about how you should behave, how you should look and how much you should weigh, what you should wear and where you should shop and what you should drive, how and where you should live and what you should do for a living, who you should marry and what you should expect of a marriage, the importance of having and raising children or what you owe your parents. You learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view. You begin reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really stand for. 
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You learn the difference between wanting and needing and you begin to discard the doctrines and values you’ve outgrown, or should never have bought into to begin with and in the process, you learn to go with your instincts. 
You learn that it is truly in giving that we receive and that there is power and glory in creating and contributing and you stop maneuvering through life merely as a “consumer” looking for your next fix. 
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You learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not the outdated ideals of a by gone era, but the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life. You learn that you don’t know everything.
Then you learn about love. Romantic love and familial love. How to love, how much to give in love, when to stop giving and when to walk away. You learn not to project your needs or your feelings onto a relationship. You learn that you will not be more beautiful, more intelligent, more lovable or important because of the man on your arm or the child that bears your name. 
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Wearing: Dress;Forever 21, Blazer; H&M, Shoes;L.A.M.B, Clutch & Accesories;Vintage

You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would have them be. You stop trying to control people, situations and outcomes.

You learn that just as people grow and change, so it is with love; and you learn that you don’t have the right to demand love on your terms, just to make you happy.

You learn that alone does not mean lonely. You look in the mirror and come to terms with the fact that you will never be a size 5 or a perfect 10 and you stop trying to compete with the image inside your head and agonizing over how you “stack up.” 


Finally, with courage in your heart and with God by your side you take a stand, you take a deep breath and you begin to design the life you want to live as best as you can.
 I HOPE  YOU ARE ALL HAVING A LOVELY DAY!
THERE IS BEAUTY INSIDE ALL OF US 😉
~Precious G(em)~



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This is just a quick post before I leave to explore more of LA and hopefully do some serious SHOPPING 🙂 After visiting Rodeo Drive in Beverly Hills, I have decided with no hesitation that this place is where I want to ultimately live hehe. In MY opinion, it’s every girls dream…or should I say MY dream. Not only is it amazingly Beautiful, but it’s shopping Galore ((if you have the finances of course)). I wore a simple mint colored babydoll top from Urban Outfitters, black bodycon skirt from American Apparel, Vintage color-blocked clutch and earrings and my favorite wrist accesories 😉
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I hope you are all having a LOVELY Day <3
~Opal~

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This is an outfit that you can either dress up or dress down, but of course I can’t go without my high heels for too long 😉 so I was happy to throw on my super HIGH L.A.M.B sandals. I am in love with stripes and this top was a steal from Urban Outfitters.
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I believe that it’s important for females to have tailored pieces in their wardrobe. There is nothing like wearing pieces that complements your figure and accentuates your assets 😉 So these pair of pants that I found at H&M was exactly what I was looking for.
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On a random note, I’ll be in Southern California this week to ship my lil sis off to College…I call her my little “mini me” 😉 …I can’t believe she’s gonna be sooooo far away for sooooo long…I might just start missing her ((Shhh)) :'( but on a happier note, I am overly excited to be in LA and check out the shopping scene && of course the FOOOOD…I’ll try to share pics while I’m there.
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Wearing: Shirt: Urban Ourfitters, Pants: H&M, Clutch:ALDO, Vintage Necklace, Platform Sandal:L.A.M.B, Black Bandeau: Macy’s
Hope you’re all having a LOVELY day 😉
~Precious G(em)~

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 I have a new found love for cropped tops and High-Waisted EVERYTHING. There is something about these two pieces that is just classic. I can always just grab it out of my wardrobe without second guessing myself.
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I got this simple cropped tee from none other than American Apparel where I can find the best basics. I loved the way it hugged the body versus my other cropped tops which just hung loosely.
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I have wanted to wear this color-block pleated skirt from H&M for a while now. I got it in the beginning of summer but just never knew what to pair it with. I thought the cropped top would complement it by accentuating the pink and purple shades.
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I added the broach to make the waist a little smaller but I also thought it would be a great accessory to add to the skirt. I sported my Envelope clutch from Aldo once more along with my vintage bracelet and vintage choker necklace. The platform pumps from Steve Madden seemed to go perfectly with the rest of the outfit.
Always remember my lovelies, you never need to look fabulous for anyone but yourself. Wear what makes you comfortable but also something that makes you feel like you’re on top of the world. I’m never overdressed, I’m just living!
Stay stylish my gems
~Precious G(em)~

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Yesterday (August 2) was my Birthday ((YES I am a LIONESS!)) && this was what I wore. I felt the print was appropriate for the occasion 😉 
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I found this dress while shopping at forever 21 with my sisters && I was pleasantly surprised so I immediately grabbed it. I paired it with my L.A.M.B platform sandals && as many of you may or may not notice, I LOVE over sized envelope clutches…the bigger the better! I see them as my replacement for the HUGE tote bags I usually carry where I always seem to pack too much Junk.
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I placed a gold vintage broach at the side of the dress to accentuate the waist line. I feel that this is a great alternative to wearing a waist belt.
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wearing: Dress: Forever 21, Platform Sandals: L.A.M.B, Envelope Clutch: ALDO, Watch: Michael Kors, Accessories:Vintage
I also wanted to thank EVERYONE for their support and I really do wish I could reply to ALL your comments and messages both on lookbook.nu, my e-mail && of course here on blogspot but time just seem to just pass me by so quickly and by the time I finish one day, the next one is beginning. Soooo a BIG THANK YOUUUUU my G(ems)!!!!
~Opal~